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Breastfed 9 month old won’t even drink water

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LolaBumble · 03/11/2026 14:18

Any tips or words of wisdom??

My 9 month old has literally never accepted a bottle and won’t even drink water. I’ve tried SO many different cups. Eats well enough and still breastfeeds a lot.

My worry is about going to nursery when I go back to work in 2 months.

On Saturday I trialled a bit of separation - for 2 hours I went out and left my husband with her, came home and she was screaming and he was trying everything.

I am just looking for any tips or tricks to help her get ready for nursery.

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Skybluecoat · 03/11/2026 14:27

Two months is still a way off. Mine never had a bottle and I couldn’t express so they were EBF or nothing.

By the time I went back to work they would take water from a sippy cup and were happy to have food instead of milk during the day.

Milk was just morning and bedtime.

LolaBumble · 03/11/2026 14:53

Skybluecoat · 03/11/2026 14:27

Two months is still a way off. Mine never had a bottle and I couldn’t express so they were EBF or nothing.

By the time I went back to work they would take water from a sippy cup and were happy to have food instead of milk during the day.

Milk was just morning and bedtime.

Thank you! This is reassuring to hear!

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StuntNun · 03/11/2026 14:57

My breastfed babies found it easier to drink water from a small open glass - think shot glass size - than from a sippy cup or bottle. You could give that a try.

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LolaBumble · 03/11/2026 15:03

StuntNun · 03/11/2026 14:57

My breastfed babies found it easier to drink water from a small open glass - think shot glass size - than from a sippy cup or bottle. You could give that a try.

Interesting! Will give it a go thank you

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Dal8257 · 03/11/2026 22:21

My breastfed babies also preferred drinking from a cup or sippy cup. They didn’t really drink much water when they started nursery at around 10 months either. First couple of week were a bit unsettled but after that they were fine and ate and drank water throughout the day (never milk though!).

StuntNun · 04/11/2026 07:02

LolaBumble · 03/11/2026 15:03

Interesting! Will give it a go thank you

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Smartiepants79 · 04/11/2026 07:09

And keep practicing leaving her for 2 or 3 hours with her dad and maybe one of your parents to get her more used to being cared for by other people. Things will be different in a couple of months as they develop so fast but I would be trying to get her more comfortable with other adults. Unless this scenario with her dad was unusual? Does she always scream when she is left with him?

OtterMummy2024 · 04/11/2026 09:26

You can also concentrate on food with a high water content (watermelon, cucumber), very milky porridge or Weetabix. Be aware that they can get weaning constipation when they reduce breastfeeding IF they aren't willing to drink water/fluids, so it's good that you are working on this.

I would also say that the novelty/peer pressure of nursery helps many reluctant eaters/drinkers/sleepers. You see lots of comments on MN about babies who only contact nap at home, feed to sleep, yet at nursery they just roll over on a mat and drift off with a gentle pat!

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