Me and my 19yr daughter just dont click at all. The vibe between us is awkward, uncomfortable and conversations are generally forced and any large amounts of time together ends up in us bickering and arguing, both of us crying etc. Sometimes its good and we are fine together. I feel its been like this for years, she was always quite a difficult child, always moody, nothing has ever been good enough, she wants her own way all the time and gets upset over the slightest thing. My middle child is the complete opposite and even she has said why is she like that. We feel like we tread on eggshells all the time. Dont get me wrong I can be difficult myself, I am not perfect and she will say the same about me. I had a difficult labour and delivery with her and I feel I never bonded, everything has always been an effort and I feel terrible for it. I would love nothing more for us to get along but it feels impossible. Seeing others with good mother daughter relationships kills me. Any advice or similar experiences welcome please. Its an awful situation for us both to be in