Hi, does anyone have any experience with Mediation?
I have my first shuttle mediation set up next week and am worried how this will go.
My ex has always had our daughter on his terms and around his work. No consistency at all. He had her for just three nights from January until April and since I met someone he is wanting to have her a lot more. Some weeks three nights, other weeks one night, some weeks not seeing her at all. I believe he is currently signed off sick from work hence him wanting to have her so much. I’m asking for a structured routine. Tuesdays and thursdays for dinner after school and every other weekend Friday to Sunday. I have no idea what he is wanting to have her but I don’t feel comfortable with him having 50/50 as she is only 4 and struggled being away from me. He also lives with his mum and dad still who like a drink. She isn’t allowed to play in the living room there due to there being too much china (on her dad’s day so) and she doesn’t have her own bedroom. She starts school in September so wanting this routine in place asap to help her with the anxiety she struggles with. Her nursery agree with how she struggled and believe she would benefit from structure, along with a family support worker who is now helping. Any advice will be gratefully received