I actually hate this shit, young kids are just simply like living in hell with no human rights, anyone else?

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Ive got quite possibly the nations most prolific winger, and a child with PDA who loves nothing more than to piss you off and laugh in your face when your having a mental breakdown.

me and dad are splitting up because of it, never get a moment. Never get to share a bed, never get to fucking eat dinner in peace, they dont sleep, they dont eat meals I make them, they dont behave, they break everything, its still so incredibly hard every single day is pretty awful stress wise.

does it ever get better? They are 4 & 5 and honestly all the other kids they know seem very calm and according to the parents actually fucking sleep.

I’ve read your previous posts.
It sounds like hell on earth.
Will you co-parent 50/50?

It’s absolutely hell on earth! Ive just given up work too, and nope because of his job. Most people get at least 2 hours a night right? We dont get even an hour consistently without one kicking off, I honestly dont know what the actual fuck Is wrong with them, they have everything, they are active etc - we have tried several bed times etc, hell!

If one is PDA presumably hes also autistic? And if you have one ND child its highly likely you'll have another. What services are they open to if any? Is either under paediatrics?

Is the PDA diagnosed so your son is autistic? You sound at the end of your Tether and who can blame you. Hopefully someone comes along with some advice and strategies you can try. Sorry you're having such a shit time 💐