My 14 yr old doesn’t want to go to dads

[Janet2929]

Bit of advice.
my 14 yr old doesn’t want to go to dads but he pucks up from outside school.
there is a child arrangement order but shouts a lot and hits him.

14yos can choose with their feet. Or so our social worker told me.
no one can insist a 14yo goes to dads.

recommend 14yo confides in an adult at school and next time refuses to leave school
premises whilst dad is outside.

school will deal with it. And they may make a referral to child services.

If he hits him then support your son to go to the police and report his dad.

Thanks.
a referral has been made.

And it’s reported to the police

Another thread?