Did anyone end up being a stay at home Mum after having their third child? With all of them being young still? I currently work part-time and I will try and go back to work after I’ve had my third, but I just feel anxious and nervous because you know what it’s like when they all get ill you have to have time off work. I know some people Who have worked and then had their 3rd and became a stay at home mum because their kids just kept getting poorly as there’s more chance of having to phone in at work and they said it started to become a problem at work…. I will have 3 under 8 years.