Help any taken

[Emsy19]

We moved out from an unstable ex. Since then my eldest son has become very nasty to me and his siblings even though he wanted the move due to emotional turmoil. Basically it's like living with my ex all over. He says nasty things his
vindictive controlling and hits. Any help would be appreciated but more details would be given private

You could try phoning Family Lives for advice.
https://www.familylives.org.uk/

You could refer him for counselling, I suggest trauma therapy.

You could also look into the Respect Programme for young people
https://www.respect.org.uk/pages/115-rypp#:~:text=What%20is%20the%20Respect%20Young,particularly%20their%20parents%20or%20carers.