Just looking for advice. DS (approaching 3) is toilet trained can hold for hours, gives plenty of notice, stops activities to go to the toilet etc is still daily accidents at nursery often more than 1 and I'm honestly beginning to think it's possibly not a him problem but a nursery problem.
Some of the staff justdon't seem that bothered or helpful and when I ask what he was doing when he had an accident they aren't always sure.
Today I arrived to collect him and he was sitting on the carpet when he stood up it was clear he had weed, he was in grey shorts so it was beyond obvious. They changed him and said it must have just happened but once home when I put the clothes in the wash they were 80% dry and it was actually a wee stain so it had obviously not just happened.
I'm at a complete loss on what to suggest as it's obviously not all the staff but it's clearly a problem as it's the only place he's having accidents any ideas or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.