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Ex H against me asking CMS to work out payment amount.

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Hairbear2 · 30/04/2022 20:03

I have a feeling my dd dad is lying about his earnings to keep his payments down. So I went through CMS. He was on my doorstep practically begging me to ring them and stop this. He said he’s being honest and then offered to put it back up by £5. He’s now texting and threatening to stop paying for extras (half of clubs and holiday care) if I go through with it.
he’s had a 2 hour chat with them, he said he didn’t want to be in the system. I really can’t see his problem, is there a difference it will make to him? Is there something I might not be seeing? I just can’t see how it will affect him, unless he was lying of course.

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AnneLovesGilbert · 30/04/2022 20:05

Have you got a figure from CMS? Is it enough of a difference more to pay for clubs and holiday care? He’s only got to pay the CMS figure and can stop paying for other stuff if he wants to. Do whatever means he’ll pay more.

FromOurHatsToOurFeet · 30/04/2022 20:08

If he's protesting that much, I reckon he's done the figures and the payment is more, even with the extras. Much more than his £5 anyway!

Hairbear2 · 30/04/2022 20:08

No I haven’t got the figure yet, he wants me to stop it before it gets that far. So yes, if he’s lying, it probably will be enough to pay the difference.

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AnneLovesGilbert · 30/04/2022 20:09

See it through. He’s kicking off for a reason.

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