What age can a baby/toddler use a pillow?

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I know it's not recommended before 12 months but what about after that age? I co sleep with my 13 month old and she keeps wanting my pillow and it disrupts both of our sleep

13 months is fine. I would move her into her own cot though if you can, because at her age she will forget being in your bed very quickly and adapt to her new bed. It gets a lot tricker towards 2. Perhaps a new pillow as a bribe?!