A lot of bad stuff involving police and stuff has happened between me and my child's father. My baby is now 11 weeks old tomorrow. I had no contact with him throughout the pregnancy until recently I wrote him a letter and attached a few photographs inside. After receiving this letter he got in contact saying he wants to see his son. He says he has to confirm it with the police first as he's unsure what his bail conditions are. Two weeks have past and there has been no word of him since. Last I spoke to him he was very keen to meet his son and said he didn't want to miss anymore of his life. His parents were in contact also and they said the same. No word from them either. Do you think I should chase it up again or let them go and let them come to me. I was going to bring the child up to them this weekend and surprise them but I don't know what to do.