Now what is the best plan, assuming all goes to plan? We are already moving house and ds starting school next September. I will be 36 next May, don't have huge energy levels and want to have a baby next year really rather than any later, plus I will have to leave work when we move so it seems like the obvious point to do it. Ds is coming up for 3.5 and dd is 22 months atm.
Do I have a baby before we move or after ds starts school? I am worried about all this change in one year. Advice?