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Should I give DC10 a duplicate of his babyhood snugly? He still has/adores the original

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NameChangerella · 19/08/2018 02:40

DS had a favourite cuddly toy as a baby and it's still his favourite now. I bought a replacement incase it ever got lost and recently found it.

Should I gift it to him? Or will that shatter the magic of the original? Also I worry DS will be sad that the secondary toy has sat alone in the cupboard for a decade. But then I reckon he'd like to 'rescue' him and give him a better 'life' (DS is quite sensitive)

I'm really unsure here!

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imsoboredwithitall · 19/08/2018 02:45

Do it!

HuntIdeas · 19/08/2018 07:07

To be honest, I wouldn’t give it to him. I had (still have) a favourite cuddly but a duplicate wouldn’t have meant anything to me at that age.

Also, we got a duplicate of my DD which she found when she was 2. She was ecstatic for a couple of days but she soon discarded the spare one whereas the original is still very much loved at age 6 (and yes, she can tell the difference)

I would either give the spare to the charity shop or tell DS about it and ask if he wanted to keep it or to donate it to a child in need.

FlaviaAlbia · 19/08/2018 07:09

Keep it, then one day if you have grandchildren give it to DS then.

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WinnerWinnerChickenDinner0 · 19/08/2018 07:13

Yep as Flavia said, would be so lovely to give to his first kid

LIVIA999 · 19/08/2018 07:14

I did this to my then 11 year old. I found a duplicate on eBay and thought it would be funny to buy.
She laughed then got completely hysterical sobbing.
I think it was the shock of how different they look.
She's never forgiven me. It's now in a box in my wardrobe and when I say ' oh we could give it to so and so' she gets really upset.
Infact she saw it a few days ago in its box and asked why I'd still kept it.
So in my experience I'd say save it!

Spam88 · 19/08/2018 07:15

Ah flavia's idea is lovely. I wouldn't give it to him, I don't think there's any point.

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