OH and so have 2 children together, 22 months and 3 months. Since conceiving DC2 I rarely felt like having sex at all, I think we did it twice during my whole pregnancy.
Now baby is 3 months old and have her sex just once since he was born, by that time it had been almost a year.
The reason mainly is that I didn't feel sexy at all during pregnancy, I still don't now but It had been that long I was quite scared too, especially after tearing and stitches etc.
But what I have been really struggling with lately is that I just don't feel attracted to OH anymore, he has grown a big beard which I hate, in sure a lot of you like a beard but it just reminds me of my dad. When he is getting changed or out of the shower and I see his man bits I'm a bit grossed out by it!??
Has anybody else experienced this complete lack of sex drive after having babies? Will it come back ?