Does anyone else have this problem? My son is spending his lunch money on cookies and fizzy drinks at school. When I make a pack lunch he comes home with it uneaten. It's driving me nuts (and he doesn't even like those). wtf don't they have proper school meals like they used to with no choice. I don't see how a 12 year old given the option of a sensible hot meal and sweet treats could make the choice at that age. I've asked school if there's anything I can do but they don't seem to be able or want to help. He also doesn't brush his teeth. I need soothing and reassuring please that this is normal behaviour f or a 12 year old. I didn't really want my first post on Mumsnet to be a big long rant. Any responses appreciated (I think?! be kind please)