I'm aware that if I don't have some "rules" in place now (i.e. a the tweenie stage) it will be very difficult to change things once the dcs become teens. But I'm seeing a gradual creep in time that the dcs are spending on screens and feel like I am now starting to constantly be battling to get them off the screens and having negotiations when they find reasons they "need" to be on the computer/ipad.
Can you share the rules/guidelines you have that you feel work (or indeed any you wish you had put in place before your dcs became teenagers)?