My oldest is 2 and my second daughter is 6 weeks old, and I'm curious when people felt that the dynamic shifted from 'there's a new baby' to 'this is our family'. We're doing OK so far, judging from what I hear from other mums and on here, but I do remember with the first there was a shift from adjusting to having a baby to feeling like this was now regular life. I can't remember when that happened though! I hope my question makes sense.