They are 7 and 5. Both bring their own "issues".
Ds1 can be rude, disobedient, and back chatty. Ds2 is demanding, tantrummy and unreasonable when he's in the mood. Their behavior is bringing me down and making me feel incapable and generally an ineffective parent.
How do people deal with bad behavior? I look around and feel other people's dc are better behaved and don't know what to do.
Please give me advice or at least tell me it's normal!?