DD 11yrs, just sweared badly at her, am at wits end

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DD 11yrs has attitude! Periods started at 10y.2mth and she is very mature. Just swore so badly at her and told her I am sending her to boarding school. I can't stand the eye rolling, the looks, the tone of voice. I try and try but she still gets to me. It goes on all day every day. She has the best life, lots of love and attention, I just DON'T GET IT. Helpppppppppp

apoliguse for swearing at her but explain how you felt hth someone with more experience will be along soon

I'll be watching this thread as my dd1 is 9 going on 27...

my step son has been like that since he was 10, i havnt cope very well with it. Usually ends up in a full scale row. sometimes i just send him to his room out of my way for his safety as well as my sanity! I would try and explain why you swore and also think back to when you were that age.

She knows exactly why I shouted and swore, for the same reason as every other time I raise my voice. Maybe times have changed but does this really mean kids have NO respect. I never uttered a word wrong when I was growing up, it just wasn't done. DD is very privileged, but should this make her worse? In my opinion, not, but I will not tolerate her attitude and I need to find help. She was on a residential sch trip last week and our house was a haven of bliss, I have a younger DS (7).

think it is youth today, no respect, no understanding of remorse or ramifications of behaviour.