I work evenings and dh puts the kids to bed a few nights a week. I do the other nights while he is working so we very rarely put the kids to bed as a team iyswim? BUt when we do, I get seriously p####d off by his bath time routine. No matter what I say (or scream, yell, get hysterical etc) there is always something just as bad the next time. Am I over reacting - go on - you can be honest! How can I get dh to see sense???
eg he leaves the 2 year old (and this goes back a few months so he was under 2 the first time) in the bath alone then goes downstairs to do the dishes and tidy up. I admit, I don't sit right next to him myself, but I stay in earshot at least.
tonight he put ds1 who is 3 in the bath and started running the bath while ds1 was in it (hot and cold at same time) then again went downstairs to tidy up. I had to come and rescue ds1 from rather hot bath. do you think he would have had the sense to get out if it got too hot?? I just know I wouldn't have done it.
Every time, it seems to be something like this that just does my head in. I feel like I'm banging my head against a wall. dh won't admit there is anything wrong with what he does.
So - should I take a chill pill or how can I get him to see sense.
Over to you