How do people approach Attachment and Unconditional parenting with 2 plus children

[Dinglebert]

Just wondering how this works in practice. I love the sound of both these approaches, but wondering how it fits within real life - 3 children, DH working away etc. How do you become a child led parent when you have three children wanting to head off in different directions and need to be on the road for school in three minutes.

Also, does anyone know what child psychologists support these approaches?

i don't use the naughty step, but i do bribe shamelessly to stop dc whacking each other.

would be very very interested if somebody else had another way of stopping fights without resorting to 'no treats if you hurt each other'

i do also explain again and again why it is not ok to hit. they finish my sentences for me they know the spiel so well.