DS is 2.4 and we've just found out we're expecting DC2 beginning December so would be great if we can get him into a proper bed (he's still in a cot which we'll eventually need for the baby), wean him off his dummy (which he knows he can only have in his cot or in his buggy, so effectively just to sleep) and get him potty trained (which he currently shows NO interest in!) by the end end of the summer.....ish! Mainly so by the time the baby comes it's not another huge thing right after sorting out these others things, he'll have a few months being a bigger boy.
Obviously if he doesn't take to any, I'd rather follow his lead but just thought it'd be less traumatic trying to do any of these with a newborn, for him or for me! Especially as I don't want him to feel he's giving things up for the baby. And he'll be three by then which I hope is a realistic age to have done with these milestones.
The thing is, which first?! I work in theatre so it's very sporadic, I'm currently home full time at the moment but will be working full time May-July (thinking of finding a childminder who will do the potty training for me!), so another thing to take into account
Any thoughts massively appreciated