20 month age gap?

[Arabella36]

Would love to hear from people who have children with this age gap. Having experienced it, how did you find it and would you recommend it?
I'm asking because I'm considering when to have a second child. (am well aware that this isn't always something you can actually plan though!)
Am wondering about things like sibling rivalry and the workload with 2 in this age group.
Thanks in advance for any advice.

Jass - I'm psyching myself up for making a number two. I can't imagine the total shock if I were to have twins! I simply hadn't even considered it as a possibility. Are there twins in your family?

Delighted to hear your enjoying them all now after the hectic first few months

No need to apologize mjinsparkly

Don't worry ours are IVF!