SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
I didn't put her on the toilet before I went to bed, I checked her and she was dry and I lost my bottle to wake her up.
She had a small dribble into the pants - not enough to wake her though and I wouldn't have called it 'wet' she was very pleased with herself this morning and sdhe earned her first 'dry night star'!
Tonight I plan to send her to bed in a nightie (rather than PJ's - ill thought through by me!) with no pants on. then when I go to bed pop her on the potty (easier as will only have to lift nightie) then put the trainer pants on her once she's done a wee.
It was more successful than I expected!