my first pregnancy wasn't planned but worked out really well. Had gorgeous baby girl and married her lovely dad. found out i was expecting againafter our first month trying. Really didnt expect it to happen right away so now need tips on Surviving all stages of pregnancy with boisterous 1+yr old. How to prevent her feeling left out or neglected when 2nd comes along (she'll only be 20months). What do i need to buy? and is there such a thing as a tandem buggy that can be used with a travel system? All help welcome