I have been out a lot lately with work and meeting at night and sign along courses and I have a first aid course tomorrow from 9-5pm. I dont want to go. My mum is on holiday so I am meant to visit my grandad instead of her. I had arranged that dh and dc's would visit insteadd but my grandad just phoned and told me to book a restaurant as he was going too take them all out to lunch instead and . I ddidnt want to go before this as my weekends with my family are precious but this has made me rreally not want to go. Whhat to do? Sorry am just ranting, I will be charged iff I dont go.