my mum says i shouldnt have had dd3 [sad]

[misdee]

she doesnt mean it nastily and she adores dd3 as much as all her grandkids, but she feels i have too much on my plate atm, and has told me not to have anymore kids. the thing is, me and dh feel our family isnt complete, we want one more but we have decided we will definatly wait and see what happens as he is very ill atm, and we know the risks of transplant.

don't worry misdee my mum says the same (not so much now ds3 is here as he's lovely). If I got pregnant again she'd be REALLY cross, she spent last pregnancy cross with me.

It's only because they care.

Misdee, mum says the same thing to me, she doesn't think I could cope with a 4th either, I think she see herself in us, and knows how hard things are with 4 children.

Well misdee, you certainly have got a lot on your plate, but you are coping with it incredibly well and dd3 sounds like a perfect love. I hope that by this time next year Peter will have a new heart and you will all have a new life and then you can think about no. 4 - meanwhile dd3 is here to be enjoyed and she has added so much to all your lives. You are so lucky to have 3 little girls.