I had been drinking and am SOOOO ashamed of myself
I really do know I was out of order those of you who know the thread ARGH am really really sorry.
Honestly I have never been so embarrassed
Please don't think I'm as much of a bitch as I sounded I genuinely just got to worked upa nd started mouthing off.
I have reported it to mumsnet please don't do any links to it as it really is so disgusting.