I just feel like everyone thinks I'm coping because I look like I'm coping, and I am coping most of the time. But the assumption that I always am pisses me off.
"but you're ok, you've got DP/a nice house/a job/a well behaved child/etc farking etc" yes because all of that fell out of the heavens and landed in my lap, I haven't had to work my arse off for it all
FFS I sound like a raving mad woman
see a nice padded soundproofed scream room would help I think, I think there's definitely a gap in the market there