i am the worlds LEAST decisive person ever ever. its is v v dull.... any tips to help me snap the hell out of it??

[BloodySmartarse]

i cant make a decision to save my life
its gotten really ridiculous
help me stop it crippling me...

how do you make decisions??

this is a stupid question isnt it?

hmmm, thanks ruby, i might try that on the chicken house thing...

I have a friend who is like this. I bought her a Yes/No dice.

It's a bit of a modern curse, too, that there is SO much choice in everything. I think it makes a lot of people anxious that they'll get it wrong.

I make decisions quite quickly, based on gut instinct and a belief that I can change my mind if it doesn't work out. It helps to not be a perfectionist who thinks it all has to be perfect.

Good enough is good enough.

See - that last post of mine was cliched and a bit crap, but hell, I posted it anyway

LOL janni

ok
have decided to do the hair (tho not done it yet, not had time)
AND have booked the holiday and roped my mum into coming to help with childcare.
and i kind of feel close to the chicken housing solution [boring self now, going on about the bloody chicken house]

AND my nails are largely unbitten, painted a lovely shade of blue and looking lovely (a recent achievement, since ive been biting them most of my life)

not doing too badly, eh?

thanks rubes [always happy to receive pats on head ]

Well done, that's a great start

i should do before and after pics of hair for judgement...

well done on hair and holiday sorting, where you booked to go?
As for chicken accomodation, can you have a chicken shed then you can use it for storage if the chicks don't like it.

I like the coin idea! Was reading this with interest as I am usually not bad with big decisions, but can get in a right palaver about little ones! Like if I fancy getting out of the house with DS but haven't got anything particular planned, I can spend so long f*nnying about deciding what to do and whether we have got time to do X before he needs his next meal/sleep or should do Y instead, that we end up not having time to do anything at all... I suppose the coin thing only works when there are just 2 choices, but that would be a start.