My dad died 21 years ago today

[Mercy]

We didn't have a particularly good relationship (to put it mildly) but the older I get the more I can see how similar we are/were.

That's what I don't like, it's a bit oonfusing tbh.

Mercy I'm with you on that one - although mine isn't dead...............

Mum died 4 years ago and I am turning into her I think..................

It's strange isn't it? He was 50 when he died and I'm nearly 45 now.

I don't want to turn into my dad!

god, I still have full conversations and debates with my dad now 8 years on. It's a bit onesided...but he still always wins.....