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What would you make of the following message in your inbox, Sorry, should be in Relationships but am in too much of a hurry to find it.

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2sugars · 31/05/2008 09:22

i loved your profile and I think we can be friends.

just hit me up on msn messenger i am [email protected]

???

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wessexgirl · 31/05/2008 09:23

Oh, dh had one of these yesterday. Tis spam.

2sugars · 31/05/2008 09:26

Are you quite sure wg? Have just confronted him with it. Why would I get that? I only email my mum and friends.

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MissingMyHeels · 31/05/2008 09:26

I would maybe think they were referring to a dating profile if I had any suspicions/gut feel. Just as likely to be spam.

Email back and say where did you see my profile?

TheProvincialLady · 31/05/2008 09:28

No don't email back unless you want to be bombarded with spam of this kind. I get loads of this on my yahoo account and I am def not signed up with any dating agencies!

Unless you have other reasons to be suspicious, let it go.

wessexgirl · 31/05/2008 09:29

Did it say any more than that? Dh's had a load of drivel about being given his name by friends and also said not to reply to email address but use messenger instead.

MissingMyHeels · 31/05/2008 09:30

Was it just to you?

2sugars · 31/05/2008 09:30

I did email back, saying lovely to get your email, hope we can be friends too &c. Am shaking as I type this.

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PortAndLemon · 31/05/2008 09:31

Spam. Look here (post of 05-24-2008, 11:55 PM), for example.

RubberDuck · 31/05/2008 09:33

It's spam... I get hundreds of these a week, some with pictures attached.

2sugars · 31/05/2008 09:33

Yes, it was just to me, but then we share the same email addy. And he's refused to let me have the password on his new PC.

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PortAndLemon · 31/05/2008 09:33

Also here (the 27 May, 04:08 email).

wessexgirl · 31/05/2008 09:34

It's def spam though, 2sugars - either that or Jane May is a VERY friendly girl. Have you clicked P&L's link?

misdee · 31/05/2008 09:34

its spam.

i get several a day telling me i'm a hot guy.

MehgaLegs · 31/05/2008 09:34

It's deffo spam - but do you have reason to be suspicious?

RubberDuck · 31/05/2008 09:35

And there's lots of ways your email can get on spammers list... you may have signed up to something that sold it onto a third party, a forum post (where email is displayed/accessible) can be scraped, IM and email viruses can also harvest email addresses (remember, doesn't have to be YOU that has the virus, can be one of your friends), etc.

misdee · 31/05/2008 09:35

why are you so suspecious? are there other issues i nthe relationship?

micci25 · 31/05/2008 09:35

oh i always get things like that and i have no interest in dating! they are usually to me not dp as i am the daft that spends time filling out competions and giving my email to any one and every one. does you/your dp do that much? could explain it easily

i even get some from asian beauties or something quite frequently to my yahoo address! i wouldnt worry about it

2sugars · 31/05/2008 09:35

How do you download msn messenger? Just googled it at nothing Microsoft-like came up.

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RubberDuck · 31/05/2008 09:37

MSN.com

RubberDuck · 31/05/2008 09:37

Messenger is on the left underneath the word "Welcome"

MehgaLegs · 31/05/2008 09:38

But it's spam. You shouldn't even reply. Just delete stuff like that without opening.

mybrainaches · 31/05/2008 09:38

I get these all the time, dont worry about it, I get ones inviting me to meet local women too

PortAndLemon · 31/05/2008 09:38

Now you've emailed back you can expect a lot more spam, as you've confirmed (a) that it's a live email address, and (b) that you are [sorry] gullible enough to reply to spam.

RubberDuck · 31/05/2008 09:38

But no... don't contact the spammer.

RubberDuck · 31/05/2008 09:39

Ah yes - you have emailed back. Prepared to get THOUSANDS of spam emails now. Get yourself decent spam software pronto or you'll drown in the stuff.