thanks - read some refs on here (from Kaz?) from people who seem to have found it worthwhile, wanted to check that out. Thinking i need finally to sort out some old issues, heal old wounds which i felt cbt opened but didn't deal with. Not sure whether it's for me but fairly convinved by website (but surely most would tick at least some of their boxes in "is it for me?") Am i a sucker for good marketing and how do i persuade dh?? we're rather broke, esp as i'm thinking of stopping work for a while til ds older