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Don't know where I stand or what to do

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sajamor · 08/04/2024 16:50

I've been wondering for some time now whether one of my friends is a frenemy or at least not all that she seems.

I've caught her telling lies several times and where other people are concerned she's always either better than them or a victim of them. I find it hard to believe she could have earned half these achievements or praises she goes on about or that people could be vindictive, jealous, etc to the extent she makes out.

Then this afternoon she sent me a text saying sometimes I accuse her of things she hasn't done. She's claimed that a guy she was in love with and asked her to marry him went back to Israel where he's just disappeared after his home was raided by gunmen. According to her the woman who did marry him accused her of being after him - now she's accused me of saying it but as a good Christian she forgives me. There's nothing to forgive since I never said or thought anything of the kind.

Then she sent other texts acting like nothing had happened and inviting me to chat with her over the phone tonight. I don't know if she's got mental health problems or she's playing games with me but I'm just wondering if I should stay away.

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brocollilover · 08/04/2024 16:52

ah it’s a mumsnet friendship

ie neither party likes the other

Pantaloons99 · 08/04/2024 16:54

The first word that comes to me is dangerous. Everything you describe makes me feel really uncomfortable, I would not feel safe or cared for and respected in a friendship with this person. By dangerous I think she could bring alot of trouble to your door or impact you emotionally in a very negative way. I think you should distance for sure. Whatever the reason is you can't help change this.

MILTOBE · 08/04/2024 17:08

brocollilover · 08/04/2024 16:52

ah it’s a mumsnet friendship

ie neither party likes the other

You are really lacking in comprehension skills.

brocollilover · 08/04/2024 17:23

MILTOBE · 08/04/2024 17:08

You are really lacking in comprehension skills.

😆

yup. i can’t comprehend regarding this as a friendship

but clearly rather familiar to you!

Copperoliverbear · 08/04/2024 23:09

I'd stop being friends with her and block her. X

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