Remember my little rant about my ex who was being a complete ? Well i listened to the advice that was given and waited until new year was over to sit him and his brother down and have a go at them. Things got a lot better after that, but after a week he was treating me like crap again so i packed his bags and went to throw him out but he fell to the floor and started crying! i gave him one last chance and it seems to be working because he is so lovely to me now and his brother has changed too! He goes out at 10am every mornin to look for a job.. He does a lot of housework now.. He even makes tea sometimes!!
So...Thanks to all the mums who gave me advice.. I wouldnt have known what to do without you all!