Sorry firstly if this is a duplicate thread as i am still in hospital i am posting on my phone and when i tried to click post everything disappeared. I also cant do paragraphs so sorry for the dense hard to read messages.
Back to the point thankyou to everyone for all your kind words and wishes not only to me but am also DP. In fact i think when i get home we may be fighting for mumsnet access. In fact it wouldn't surprise me if he were on here now. Maybe that is why i could not complete my post before !