What's The Hardest Lesson You've Learnt?

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What's the hardest lesson/ lessons you've had to learn? 💔

Trigonometry.

To admit I can't do everything myself... Although I will die before I ask for help

That I should have listened more at school

That I should have listened more at school

Compromise. Accepting a harsh blow and moving on.

That you are in charge but not ness in control

Things can and do get worse

How few people are really genuine and sincere.

That you're really on your own.

Having poor money management in early 20's has royally f'ed me up going in to my 30's!

Having poor money management in early 20's has royally f'ed me up going in to my 30's!

That I was very naive and used terribly but someone who I thought was a friend. After reading many CF threads on here, I started to put up some boundaries and things got nasty, it was terrible in the moment but a very good lesson for the future.

Don’t eat bread

Once a liar always a liar

That you have to weigh people up carefully and trust no-one. Be mindful of what leaves the mouth and the ears the message may fall upon.

That I don't take criticism well.
I'm not great with authority.
I'm useless with money.
It would have helped to have learnt two of those much earlier in life.

That I don't take criticism well.
I'm not great with authority.
I'm useless with money.
It would have helped to have learnt two of those much earlier in life.

That I don't take criticism well.
I'm not great with authority.
I'm useless with money.
It would have helped to have learnt two of those much earlier in life.

This sounds daft, but my Dad is such a lovely bloke, kind, patient and caring. I was very naive and sheltered, thought all men were like this.

So I settled young, for the wrong man. Because I thought he's end up kind like my Dad. I sound so stupid.

He he- and that I am not great with technology it would appear!

That people can actually be that stupid. Never ascribe malice where a lack of attention is more likely.

Bluebell I genuinely think that's a beautiful thing to say and it's not naive at all.

It tells me you come from a loving family.

@GisAFag snap!

To keep my mouth shut.

That you can only really rely on yourself.

Never lend money you can't afford to lose.

How a lot of people aren't really your friend they're just users.

There's givers and there's takers in this world a lot more takers unfortunately.

How two faced people can be but they're lower than a snakes belly.

To breathe, count to ten before reacting.

Wish I'd known all of these earlier in life.