OK, poor DH has to have the snip tomorrow ......

[UCM]

It feels so final, I am 38, he is 56. Yaddah Yaddah Yaddah.

I know that it is the right thing to do. But......

is that you, UCM?

Are you up late stressing about this UCM? He doesn't have to go you know. I would feel sad too - even if you're absolutely definitely sure you don't want any more it is so absolute.

Mine is having it done next week and I feel a bit funny about it now too, even though I've been wanting him to do it for years...

He has gone. Too late now. .. not really, I can always buy a new one