It was my fault so I'm really only posting this to get it off my chest.
Basically, I pulled out of a junction with parked cars either side and didn't see her coming so with a big > her passenger side light/bumper/wing is totally done. We were quite lucky as it's only our light and indicator that gone.
The lady was lovely and as neither of us knew what we had to do a taxi driver stopped to help us out. He checked DS2 was ok and she wasn't at all angry. Bless them both.
First time I've had an accident since passing my test at 17 yrs old but it's really shook me up. DH didn't help much, he was more concerned about the car than us and didn't even ask if we were OK. Not especially pleased with myself for being such an idiot or him for being such a B*stard.
Thanks for reading, gonna make chocolate cakes later with kids so will feel better once we've ate them all.