Just wanted to have a rant!!
Well what fun - had phone switched off yesterday due to Migrane from low blood pressure and so did not answer it or see any messages until about 5.30 when I switched it on - x2b had sent me a text asking if he could speak to HIS daughter on her birthday (later this week) as an exception (I have refused to speak to him and only communicate through solicitors or texts as he is so rude and nasty to me!) - anyway I started cooking dinner and thinking of how to reply in a clever way and forgot all about his message.
Had dinner, DP bathed DD and put her to bed I did a bit of ironing and settled down to watch location location and the house phone rings!! It was my best friend - X2b had rung her and asked her to ring me or give him my phone number as he had been ringing my mobile for 3 hours and he was 'WORRIED' about me and DD!!
I text him and said we were both fine and he then rung me - he was all polite saying that he thought something had happened to us - this I did not belive I am sure as he feels the same about me - I would like him to drop off of the face of the earth!!
Anyway he started off that I was out of order I should have replied to his text and then rung him back as soon as possible when he sent me a text saying he was worried about me and DD. And he says he is not controlling - when he did not even give the childminder my name or telephone number when he had DD - this I tried to tell him and he started yelling - we are allowed to forget all that apparently and now have to live by his rules.
Anyway he was pissed and started yelling about how he knows I had the phone on speaker phone and DD and I were laughing at him but he had been ringing our home phone and mobile for 3 hours and I was out of order because he did not give a shit about me but was worried about DD as I had not replied to his text - er so fucking what as he has said to me on plenty of occasions we do not have to do what the other says or even speak to the other if we don;t want to.
He then went on to go on and on about me being pregnant and that little bastard in my tummy and we must have him on speaker phone and on and on and on - I then said well it must be you on speaker phone that is making the line echoey because I am on the couch on my own and DP is upstairs - are you letting your sad little nerve ridden mother listen in?? And he wants rid of me ASAP - pull your finger out of your arse with regards to the divorce then you cretin!!
He then put the phone straight down so I presume she was!!
This was the end of a shit day for me and I just wish he would go away and leave me alone - he was only pissed off because I did not reply to him immediately - I said he could speak to DD on her birthday so it was just the fact that I did not get back to him and he realised I wasn't able to be controlled anymore - AAAARRRRGGGGHHHH!!!!
Anyway there we go - hopefully he will get the message that I am not being dictated to anymore or spoken to like he did yesterday.