dd2 hseperation anxiety dd1 is jealous , dh has is going out soon for the evening and I just want to get in bed and go to sleep

[melsy]

Can I have some sympathy please , its been ill house for 2weeks now and Im on my last drop of patience & energy. (drop????, more like molecule) .

I want to get dressed in a lovely cocktail dress and go sip champagne and eat gorgeous food and be whisked away to a lovely hotel and sleep on huge bed with lovely crisp sheets. OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOPPS no Ive just woken up out of that dream and babies crying, after crying ALL DAY poor sausage ,(still ill), but my word I dont know whos bum to wipe 1st.

Help me, help me I need to do bed in 20mins
and Im inclined to jump of my loft roof !

OK AND BREATH 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 !!!!!

OK SOH is still in tact JUST !!!!!

Awwwww mels

Am gonna do bed too in a few mins. So shall we meet on msn say 7?

yerr

no one loves me !!!!!

well that all went down like a lead balloon . I have been ill too in this 2weeks & dh [booo hoo emoticon].

bed??!!
I've only just got dinner in the oven!

DS2 screaming at me, doesn't want bf as he's just thrown up over me!

ahhhhhhh not your house to bb with gastric flu ??????

Sorry mels but my laptop wont switch on
I'm on dhs atm and as you know it has no messenger.

No g. flu. not that i know of

sorry bug dont want to bring it upon the bug house, just thought with the throwing up and all.

Nbg u gone to sleep? , didnt even think u may be on here ,Ive lost it, yerr go ooon say it ................. YOU NUMPTY!!!

Off to hv for a weigh in tomorrow, so will let her know about sickness.
Although..... reflux seems to have cleared

Can't you ask dh not to go out as you're exhausted and need to sleep. Don't know you but thought you might like to know I read your thread, and I care!!!

aww thank you bandofmothers, thats really kind of you. Unfortunately it was a family friends fathers wake so he had to go. Although hes just called to say hes on his way home now. Nothing on telly , hell do dream feed and I might go bed shortly.

Its just an accumulation of long nights up , long nights alone and feeling really run down. En mass illness is a new experience and quite scary.

Am off to bed now mels.
Am tired, have sore throat and want to make the most of having the bed to myself

Melsy I know exactly how you feel, felt the same last week when all I did was bounce from one vomiting episode to the next while DH was laid up in bed with same bug, of course toddlers dont do the lying in bed nicely bit.

shudder at thought of weigh in bug, Im avoiding my "box of frogs" loon HV like the plague !!! Although I may go this week to get her off my back and stop her phoning me again, !!!

Why's she phoning you all the time, how old is dc???

night night nbg x

aww gawd nemo yerrr, they do not lol, more like : lay here mummy, rub there mummy, no there, I waaaaaaaaaaaaant water. OOHHHH its to awful to think about. Poor poor kidlies, but I feel battered and bruised too.

Its only once bom , but it threw me through a loop! Im prone to exaggeration this time of night though . IM just being neurotic and anxious she might call again. Dd2 is 6mths old. Im not allowed to have any intelligence or medical knowledge myself without the help of an HV of course !!!

My dd2 is 7 mths. She didn't have a 6 nth check tho, next one is 10 mth.
Hate HV's Pain in the ass. Mine for dd1 , 3 yrs, was shite.

He was 17lb 8oz several weeks ago. I'm expecting 18lb something now. he has 2-3 meals a day although not bfing as much as I feel he should be!

Hi Bug. How old is your lo? How much is he bfing?

Wow thats an amazing weight bug, I reckon dd2 is only about 14lbs may be a little more , but we are all tiny people in my family ! Shell only have what milk she wants despite me offering and offering, and shes only just getting the BLw thing. I expect shes lost several oz the last week now.

Didnt even know there was a 6mth check!! I hate that feeling that our own kids are state property, but I know they are just being portected , it just winds me up.

aww sorry Bom , didnt mean to get you all thinky about hv's !

There isn't a 6 mth check , but am sure dd1 had one.
Don't really care tho.
My dd2 &mths, doesn't have nearly so much breast milk as she used to, now she's on 3 meals a day. Obv has morning feed. Rarely has both boobs together now either. LOVE the lopsided look that comes with that one!!
Then a bit for thirst after b'fast. Am also introducing cup w/water in. Mid morning, one boob. After lunch, one boob. 3/4 pm, as big gap tween lunch and dinner will usually have both!!! One after dinner and other one before bed.
Sound familiar, or is yours a lot less. Her feeds are a lot shorter now too. Also 1/2 during the night, quite long ones.

Sorry 7 mths not &

Not gone down the blw route.
He's just over 6mths BoM
He was a quick feeder from birth, 5 - 10 mins, every 2-3hrs, now he's down to about 2 mins if we're lucky, trying to do every 3hrs roughly.

Tea shop shut now I guess, all looks dark in there BoM, left a note on the door!