... is the regular occurrence of threads in which women who say their dh's don't masturbate/use porn are ridiculed in a kind of "you stupid little thing, how deluded are you" kind of way.
I know categorically that dh does neither, and I think that's perfectly normal, just as it is perfectly normal to masturbate every day.
Where the use of porn is concerned I'm not sure what is normal, but let's just say I'm very glad that dh isn't into it.
Am a regular btw but have changed my name because of this condescending attitude that goes with this topic.