Dh seems to be not bothered with DD2 at all, everything to do with her I have done. I have been trying to settle her into our bedroom of an evening as she spends a couple of hours screaming and he just is not interested in helping at all. Now I know he has always been a bit like that in regards to Ds and DD1 but he has this bond with them that he just doesnt have at all with DD2 and he doesnt even seem to notice if she is upset. I know he is stressed with work stuff[he went back today]/lack of job etc but I am shattered and feeling completely unsupported. Whenever I talk to him he just clams up yet has told me he doesnt want a vasectomy as he wants more children!!!