Yorkiegirl, yep as a result of your thread. We've been together 12 years, engaged for 7 and I guess it was the last bit of impotus needed to shift our asses.
The wedding is on the 2nd - so just over a week, and its grown from just us and the kids to parents and brothers, a small reception, a proper wedding dress etc. and everyone making a huge fuss - new outfits all round, the local hairdresser has 3 appointments next week, and my brother (normal attire - jeans 4 sizes too big, hoodies, skateboard etc) is getting his suit out just for the occasion
Am sure it'll be a good day!