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Any ideas when I'll get my sex drive back?

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carolcoles · 19/10/2006 20:21

Not that DH is complaining (too much!!) but I used to enjoy the odd bit of nookie and now I just can't be bothered. DD is almost 4 months and I'd like to think it'll come back one day. Please give me light at the end of the tunnel!!!!!!

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lulumama · 19/10/2006 20:28

i sometimes think it is more of 'getting out of the habit'! the more sex you have ,the more you want!!! and vice versa!

also, are you on any medication that could affect your libido?

and also you are probably exhausted and not getting much quality sleep at the mo..which doesn't help!

if you want it back...get it back! leap on DH!

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carolcoles · 19/10/2006 20:31

You are officially his new best friend. Trying to teach him that lunging at me is not considered foreplay!!!!! lol. No meds and sleep is pretty good but obviously feeling the effects of being up a couple of times a night, for the baby that is!!!

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madmarchscare · 19/10/2006 20:34

Grabing you from behind when your washing the dishes doesnt do it for you then?

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carolcoles · 19/10/2006 20:36

Only on a Wednesday!!!!!!

I like the naked lap dances he does for me but not too close to dinner time

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lulumama · 19/10/2006 20:40

LOL carol.....the longest i can get away with it is 2 weeks.!! have you managed 4 months!!

VeniVidiVickiQV · 19/10/2006 20:40

it spooks me when I see your name cc - and I cant say why on here

It'll come back soon, usually when your periods come back.

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carolcoles · 19/10/2006 20:43

No not the full 4 months but at the moment the running counter has reached 2 weeks but I'm sure my night out on the p**s tomorrow will help matters(wink). We've just bought a camper van so he is now obsessed with moor sex. ( We live near Dartmoor)

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carolcoles · 19/10/2006 20:44

still getting to grips with this stuff!!!!

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carolcoles · 19/10/2006 20:45

VVV my previous name was Beavis as in the bloody cartoon character, that was annoying.

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southeastastra · 19/10/2006 20:45

in answer to your thread title, next tuesday looks good

lulumama · 19/10/2006 20:46

one of my exes had a camper van......lovely!!

get p*ssed and have some fun!

foulmoonfiend · 19/10/2006 20:49

carolcoles LOL at moor sex - we have a camper van too and is so small that we, erm, have to go outside

IME lulumama is right, use it or lose it....you need to 'think' sexy IFKWIM

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carolcoles · 19/10/2006 20:50

Having a baby changed how I see my self so much and I think it knocked my confidence in how attractive I am. But I'm sure a lot of alchol will help.
AAAHHHHHHH I'm 17 again and looking forward to getting hammered and laid at the weekend

And everyone keeps telling me how much I've grown up. How little they know!!!!!!!

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lulumama · 19/10/2006 20:52

you go girlfriend!! and tell us all about it afterwards!!

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carolcoles · 19/10/2006 20:52

Now that is the true essence of moor sex Fullmoonfiend. In this weather there is no way I am baring my ass on Dartmoor!!!!!!!

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foulmoonfiend · 19/10/2006 21:03

well, quite! I am definitely way too old for that sort of thing in this weather. In fact, dh will just have to put me away for the winter, carefully wrapped in a large, cosy blanket with 6 months supply of chocolate and a hot water bottle, until Spring comes - and the sap rises

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carolcoles · 19/10/2006 21:06

That sounds like what has happened to my sex drive. So by that thinking it should wake up by spring like a bear with a sore head!

Actually if it's packed away until spring it'll be the dh who is like a bear with a sore head!!!!

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