Why do I keep going out of my way to be nice to people

[TwigTwoolett]

and then regretting it

you know .. people talk about having work done and the first thing out of my mouth is "oh if you need somewhere to hang out, feel free".... and they do

or people get stuck with meetings and I'm "Oh its no problem at all, we'd love to have x, y, z children .. yes of course 7.30am is fine"

arrrgghhhhhhhhhh

I'm a pillock

teach me to say "I'm a grumpy git leave me the feck alone"

but that's not in your nature, and you're a good person. What goes around comes around..think of earl hickey

wrong answer

screw karma [girn]

i'm a bit like this, have other peoples kids, end up tearing my hair out. Or run around doing favours when my house is like a tip. It;s not a bad character trait really is it?

Twiglett ~ having dd with her sn has made me extremely selfish I have to say.
I just can't really have lots of children round without another adult as she can be an almost full time job at times.
I guess it's just learning to think before you offer iykwim