HONESTY! is the best sex you had with your dh or current partner

[chocolatemummy]

come on girls, have yo got an ex flickering away in your heart or a one night stand, standing head and tails over all the rest

Having only ever had the one partner, I can honestly answer yes

He was pre DS!! Now I'm past caring!

oh come on girls, its friday night

but yeah I know wha you mean

yes. the first man i truly relaxed and let myself go with. although having just had ds3, it seems a bloody long time ago...

My dh has been my only partner and I wonder why things in the bed room have now ground to a hault???

I can honestly say that after two long relationships, a few one night stands etc that my DH now is the best person I have had sex with (says with lots of passion ).

It is also definitely better when you are in your 30s

in answer to the OP: no.

don't care, though. found out the hard way that sex isn't everything.

now, money, on the other hand . . .

Yes

An ex.... who was a fair bit younger than me

this is an unanswerable question because its always hot stuff for a year. you can't compare it if you are 10 years in.

thats true, after a while its stagnant no matter what and I am not sure about those who claim to be at it every night 10-15 years in

money, on the other hand, is the affair that keeps improving - year after year.

not true, i'm 4 years with dp and the sex is still getting better, despite the complexities of 2 pregnancies and a years bf-ing, in fact the most incredible sex we ever had was last november.... i'm due baby no.2 any day now

he's the best i've ever had because i'm so much more comfortable with him than i ever was with anyone else, and i have plenty to compare him too

Well, it would be if we were still managing to have sex regularly enough that I could remember...

Dp is definitely the best I have had compared to hot one night stands and previous long-term relationships.

With him it is physically and phsychologically intense so by far the most satisfying.

Interestingly expat, lack of money and worrying about it is what has stopped us getting it on as regularly! Sex and money - if only I could have both!

Yes very much he's younger!! hehe best ever!!

i plead the 5th.

No because I've spent 8yrs training DH! I do sometimes think about a certain ex because we used to have hysterics during sex but that wouldn't have lasted so not worth bemoaning.

honestly.................YES

I have never not waned sex with DP and at some point with exes I got to a point where I wasn't bothered.

I always enjoy sex with DP.

hes ma only 1

the thort if gettin my gead arownf anotjer dicj well no thanks

expat, me too.

Still got no money though

Yes totally and still have it a lot after 15 years...I do believe great sex and lots of it is a good foundation for a relationship.

However - did have a one off great great sex with a friend at university. Went to pub ,came home,watched 'Death in Venice' started snogging - had great sex .When we had finished he sighed and said "I KNEW it would be good!"
Stays with me....

dh gets my vote

Even bettter oafter 28 years together ( married 24, living together4) wouldn't have married him otherwise!

My advice, have weekends away, even for just one night, in a hotel you have nothing else to think about, it's great!

No not the best, nicest bits i had ever seen (but not used alot)but i had the nicest kiss with someone i met in a bar on the weekend and i was amazed at how much it could make me feel about a stranger.(I am not a floozy by the way and dont do this often. Very shocked at myself actually.) Hope i get a repeat performance otherwise will be gutted.