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I have no voice but need to chat to someone but ex H reads MN messages :-(

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mistressmiggins · 02/04/2006 20:41

anyone?

I dont know what to do
its not life-threating but I cant chat on MN in case H is still reading my postsSad

I have laryngitis so cant phone RL friends

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rickman · 02/04/2006 20:43

Did you want to chat on here on msn or in person?

Greensleeves · 02/04/2006 20:43

You could chat on MN anyway, and stuff ex-H and his poxy little opinion Grin (Hello Mr Miggins, you spineless son of a syphilitic donkey)

tortoise · 02/04/2006 20:44

Hi i will chat on msn if you like?

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mistressmiggins · 02/04/2006 20:44

I cant chat in person as in telephone cos I really do have no voice

MSN would be good as I dont want him reading MN and knowing how I feel

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rickman · 02/04/2006 20:44

Change your name?

lunavix · 02/04/2006 20:44

i'm on msn if you like.... dark willow girl @ yahoo.co.uk minus some spaces I think!

rickman · 02/04/2006 20:45

my msn is harman1969 at hotmail dot com

cod · 02/04/2006 20:49

ok why dont we change your name but send msg of your new name byt a huge cascade stytem

cod · 02/04/2006 20:50

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mistressmiggins · 02/04/2006 20:51

cos he'll find me - he did last time

hes the one that was stuck in hotel room by himself, was thinking of me and went onto Mn and found my posts

several MN said he was v sad as why wasnt he looking at porn !

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VeniVidiVickiQV · 02/04/2006 20:54

like cods plan. It could work.

cod · 02/04/2006 20:54

oh no he wont
leav it to us

opk email somoen your new name

kalex · 02/04/2006 20:55

I sent you a cat, coz i have been there and done that,

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mistressmiggins · 02/04/2006 21:21

thanks guys

am chatting to Rickman on MSN

am thinking that I should just say whats on my mind anyway - like I said, not life-threatening just didnt want H seeing how I felt...but maybve if he saw I wasnt being unreasonable, he might agree

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VeniVidiVickiQV · 02/04/2006 22:00

Are you going to?

SomethingAboutMary · 02/04/2006 22:04

God if he still reads your threads on here he seriously does need to get a life Grin Sod of MrMiggins !!

welshboris · 02/04/2006 22:11

He is a loser isnt he

moondog · 02/04/2006 22:13

Mrs M,i keep on asking how you are.
If you do change your name,please let me know.
Have been thinking about you a lot.
XX

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mistressmiggins · 03/04/2006 07:46

it's not that big a deal....

he's moving to new house week after next and wants kids there over Easter.

says the drive to his parents is too long - agree (3 to 3 1/2 hrs each way) but his new house is likely to be 2 hrs 45 mins each way so not much in it

so he wants to take kids to new house & new gf neither of which hes told them about. If they are moving that week, surely Easter weekend they'll be trying to get house straight & will prob be quite stressful so not exactly great for the children.

I know he only wants them there so he & gf can get on with their lives together rather than once a month having to be apart. I expect after 3 visits to his parents, hes bored with that. Last year we SAW his parents a grand total of 2 weekends in the entire year because H couldnt be bothered to drive up there or have them down.

on top of this, theres a good possibility I will lose my job - outsourcing

Am posting now cos he'll be at work & I think he only found me last time cos he happened to log on while I was on.
I am thinking of a new name though and will do what COD suggested when Ive thought of one I like.

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beetroot · 03/04/2006 07:57

MM. I would be very worried about suddenly introducing a new girlfrined for thekid. They need to be secure in daddys new home before suddenly f inding someone else in his bed. If he wants to have them over easter then fne but not with ehraround. that has tocome slowly. eg for lunch one day.

God he has moved fast. Theya are moving in together??

ggglimpopo · 03/04/2006 08:00

Mrs M - my msn is gggglimpopo at hotmail dot com

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mistressmiggins · 03/04/2006 08:02

they've been living together for at least 2 months maybe right from beginning
he gave me their address cos he wanted me to pick up his prescription & send it there

my H cant be alone - hes only been without a woman for 6 weeks and that was between previous woman he bought a house with and me

he has had ample opportunity to tell DS about his gf but he hasnt - I know he hasnt as DS would have mentioned it
I did sow the seeds to DS about 2 months ago and he said "I wouldnt like daddy to get a new gf as he wont love me"

H has no idea. All hes thinking about is new house with gf and kids there so they can get on with their new home. Makes me so jealous and angry.

I wqas going to suggest that he starts bringing HER up when he comes for the day to introduce her.

What can I do?
I think that if I refuse he will start getting nasty and threaten to cut money and with my job worries, I wont be able to afford the house.

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mistressmiggins · 03/04/2006 08:05

thanks gggg - have added you to MSN

have to go off line now as my day off so got things planned with kids

will be back tonight

just as you think you're coping, the next hurdle hits you

I honestly only have kids interests at heart - its nothing to do with not wanting HER near them - although obviously I hate her - I just think its too soon and should be more gradual

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ggglimpopo · 03/04/2006 08:05

Don't get cross - you will get petulant and petty.

Sit down coldly and write a plan - your kids needs and what you want and how it should be organised ie kids need stability, not too many changes at once, gentle intro to floosie etc. What you want (ie to meet the woman who will have some input in your kids lives) and how you feel it should be organised - ie she comes to you first. Then make your list succinct and send it to him. Then you can have a vodka and cry. But not before.

Uwila · 03/04/2006 08:52

Hi Miggins. I'm on msn too, if you ever want to pop in and say hi. uwila at hotmail dot co dot uk. I leave it on often, but also se to busy. If it is normal working hours (until about 6:00pm) I am probeably at work and won't be able to chat. But any other time is fine.

And Mr Miggins, you are an utter and complete arse and no one here thinks otherwise. Go away.