Ok I give up, what's wrong with me?

[Micha54178]

I don't mean to sound like I'm feeling sorry for myself, but I really don't understand why I have no friends at all!! I am 35, married have three children (14, 4 and 6 weeks). I think I'm a nice person, loyal and honest and yet I am complete unable to hold on to a friendship. The last time I had a friend to chat to, go out with etc was at least ten years ago?
I don't get it? I'm not a horrible person, I'm friendly and chatty? So why can't I have a freind? I have found that I tend to loose friends as they move away or do something fairly unforgivable. I would love to make a few freinds for girls nights, shopping, trip with the kids? Am I asking to much? Where is everybody? After having my baby a few weeks ago and no longer working I do feel lonely, I guess it never really bothered me before... What am I doing wrong? How do I go about making freinds? Any ideas?

cats I have the same feeling of bewilderment at the tornado effect my two can create, and DD2 is only 6 weeks old!

Tornado that's exactly it...and what ds is doing to my living room right now!

A successful morning at playgroup, dd2 now eating lunch and watching barbie, while ds1 feeds and may just drop off for a little while. Today is beginning to look like it might go to plan, I might even be able to get some housework done!! Hope your day is going well

Heff I just tried to send a pm to you but it's not working!!!

I've got yours but it won't let me reply now! Will try again when I'm home on wifi maybe my phone connection is too slow. Glad playgroup went well, did you mange to get much housework done?

Right so I think I've managed to pm you but again it hasn't told me its sent... Sorry if you get a hundred messages again!