Have been really trying to get to mass on sunday but it is difficult with the age of the girls. Managed to make it there and 4yr old went to children's liturgy which was a God send and 2.5 only played up a bit towards the end. So stressful sometimes I wonder why I bother. I seem to be shouting so much at girls of late especially 4 yr old. she just keeps saying things to wind the 2.5 year old up. Then I am ready to explode. Any tips on keeping my cool and not shouting. Hubby is away at moment with work on detachment for 3months it is crap!!!